
About Manners First

Our Origin
Manners First is derived from the Godly principles of showing “respect for self, for others, and learning.” Manners First was inspired in the heart of its founder, Lavern Clayton Washington. These Godly principles were taught to Clayton by his grandmother, his parents, the Rev. Frankie and Lucinda Washington, and others. They instilled in him the principle: “Good manners will take you further in life than money.”

Clayton introduced the Manners First principles to Delaware schools in January 1997. Since then, Manners First has flourished, positively impacting numerous students, families, businesses, colleges, and communities.
In 2022, we significantly shifted our focus to better align with God’s Purpose. This change reflects our unwavering commitment as God’s Ancestral brand: The MannersFirst Institute for Learning and Knowledge (The MILK).
The Rev. Frankie Washington received a Congressional Gold Medal, the nation’s highest civilian award, for his faithful service as one of the first African Americans to serve in the United States Marine Corps. Click here to read the full story about Rev. Frankie Washington and the Montford Point Marines, who were sent out to make a difference and ended up making history.
Our Vision
As in 94, 97, 2007, 2022, and now, we are Motivated to Inspire Learning and Knowledge in everyone through God’s Grace and Wisdom.
Our Mission
Our mission is clear and unwavering: to conduct, translate, and disseminate research, services, and resources to enhance and expand educational opportunities, career and workforce experiences, and mental health and well-being for all learners. This mission is not just a statement but a commitment that drives our work at The MILK and gives us hope for a brighter future. We are steadfast in our dedication to this mission and invite you to join us on our journey.
Who We Are
We are certified and experienced teachers, professors, administrators, counselors, and professionals working directly in the public, private, and charter school fields and post-secondary places of higher learning.
What We Do
Our organization is dedicated to supporting all individuals’ academic and personal growth and assisting them in realizing their educational and career aspirations. Our service centers and established programs offer comprehensive support in academic, personal/social, and college and career development. Additionally, we are committed to conducting rigorous research and implementing evidence-based and innovative solutions to drive education reform in K-12 and higher education settings.
Our Purpose and Priorities
Our purpose at The MILK is to expose all students to a Lively Hope, and to provide them with social, academic, and career support. Our centers, programs, and initiatives are designed to encourage, support, and create a nurturing environment for learning and opportunities for all students to demonstrate their God-given gifts, talents, and skills.
The MILK is led by a team of compassionate and highly qualified advisors representing families, corporations, businesses, local and state governments, colleges and universities, faith-based organizations, education, pediatrics, health, law, and the military.
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